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1. Who you are now is not who you will be in 10 years. It is okay to be somebody new 10 minutes from now. We are always learning. We are always growing. If you realized 10 seconds ago that you don’t like who you are, shed your skin, retry, replant yourself in good soil.
2. Cleaning is instant therapy. When your brain is muddy, take a shower, wash your hands, change your clothes. Spend 15 minutes straightening your living room. When you are angry, scrub things. I know it’s crazy but it works instantly.
3. Forgive someone’s debt if it’s under 50 dollars, forgive the small things, give a little time to yourself and forgive the big things too. Forgiveness isn’t about the other person, it’s about you. That being said - if someone ever hurts you in a way that would make me cry to know, you get out of there, my love. You just get up and go.
4. Gum karma is real and if you spit out a piece in public expect to find some on your shoe in the future. Same goes for insults and harsh judgement, too.
5. Do what you love and the money will follow.
6. Live your life with an open palm and give as much as you can and as often. At some point in your life, someone will lend you 50 bucks when you’re down on your luck. Remember how that feels. Remember to give that back.
7. Always wear clean underwear. You’ll thank me later.
8. There is a difference between being kind and being passive and there are those who cannot see that difference. They will try to walk all over you. Never bend your knees for those who do.
9. Have faith. Have faith in god or people or yourself or science or in luck or in all of the above. Faith is what keeps us going, faith is what keeps us strong.
10. Pay your bills on time whenever you can, although money is nothing. Remind yourself that.
11. Do not forget you were once ignorant of all you know now. Be patient of anyone who hasn’t had the education you have. Speak at the level of the person you are with - it’s not playing dumb, it’s being considerate. There’s no reason to make them feel uncomfortable. Plus then when someone starts going off about their superior IQ, you can cut them to pieces and watch their face when you do.
12. You are the best person in the room for one particular thing, and that’s confidence. You are the worst person in the room for another thing, and that’s humility. Use both carefully.
13. Never make fun of someone’s beliefs or superstitions, let your kid keep their imaginary friend and let your best buddy believe in knocking on wood. We all have security blankets. Don’t take away someone else’s.
14. Try to learn something new every day.
15. The worse you look, the more likely you are to run into someone you know so instead of feeling awkward, learn to be confident in sweats while talking to your friends.
16. Never go to bed angry, it will ruin your sleep and make tomorrow even harder. Find a way to relax. Don’t let today get to your head.
17. Think before you speak. When someone says something, mull over their words before answering. This is called listening, it is different than hearing.
18. What keeps love beautiful is that there’s risk involved. If he breaks your heart and it doesn’t hurt, it wasn’t love in the first place.
19. Never let someone else determine who you are or how happy. You are too strong to be torn apart.
20. I love you, even when we are fighting, even when I am fast asleep. Don’t doubt it for an instant. You are my everything.
"Life lessons my mother has taught me from the side of her hospital bed (part 2/2 of a series) /// r.i.d (via fearlessknightsandfairytales)
"I know you’re tired. Tired of eyes that take more than they give. Tired of people who measure love in teaspoons. Tired of yourself.You look in the mirror and say your name until it loses meaning. You want to unknot the geography of you. Trail your hands along the roads of your scars and hope that in some way this body is still your own. You tell yourself to breathe. Songs used to dance on your tongue, now it’s sonatas of ‘inhale’ and ‘exhale’. In and out. In and out. Always out. People exiting your room, your arms, your life. These rocks say that they love you and then split under your weight. You wonder what’s wrong with you, why your skin is always tearing open, why the world comes pouring out. You sob until your sorrow is a beast clawing your throat raw. It’s not shiny eyes and flushed cheeks. It’s snot and pain and the echo of ‘alone’. This is something you can’t make beautiful. Something you can’t make up. So don’t. Scream, thrash, burn the whole world and paint with the smoke. Take up room. Take up all of it. Stretch, don’t slouch, look terror in the heart and wink. You are not too much. You are not inadequate. You are everything those who have failed you were too weak to hold. You are goodness. You are love."
Elisa Vita, To Téa, pt 1 (via inkchantments)
THIS IS ABOUT ME, I LOVE MY FRIENDS
(via thingsmyxxxsaid)
"You need to start treating yourself the way you deserve to be treated. Prove to the world you ARE worth something by treating yourself with the utmost respect and hope that other people will follow your example. And even if they don’t, at least one person in the world is treating you well: YOU."
loving yourself is the greatest revolution (via cwote)
